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Step-by-Step Guide to Choreographing Your Wedding Dance

by Enrica from First Dance Academy

Your wedding day is one of the most memorable occasions in your life, and every

aspect of it should reflect your personality and love for each other. While

planning a wedding involves numerous decisions, one element that often adds a

touch of romance and excitement is the wedding dance. Choreographing a

wedding dance for your special day can be a beautiful way to showcase your

love and create a magical moment that you and your guests will cherish forever.

In this step-by-step guide, we'll take you through the process of choreographing

your own wedding dance.

Step 1: Choose the Right Song

The first step in choreographing your wedding dance is selecting the perfect song.

Consider songs that hold significance for both of you, evoke strong emotions, or

reflect your relationship. Whether it's a classic love ballad or a contemporary hit,

choose a song that speaks to your hearts and sets the right mood for your dance.

Step 2: Determine the Dance Style

Next, decide on the dance style that suits your personalities and the song you've

chosen. Popular options include traditional ballroom dances like waltz or foxtrot,

passionate Latin dances like salsa or tango, or even a modern contemporary

routine. Research different dance styles and discuss with your partner to find the

one that resonates with both of you.

Step 3: Enlist Professional Help

If you have little to no experience in dancing, consider enlisting the help of a

professional dance instructor. A skilled instructor can guide you through the

process, teach you the necessary techniques, and help you create a unique

routine that showcases your strengths. They can also ensure that you feel

confident and comfortable on the dance floor, even if you have two left feet.

Step 4: Plan the Routine

Once you have your song, dance style, and instructor (if applicable), it's time to

start planning your routine. Begin by discussing your vision with your instructor or

partner. Think about the overall structure of the dance, including the opening,

middle, and closing segments. Consider incorporating special moments like a dip,

twirl, or lift to add that extra wow factor.

Step 5: Break It Down

Now it's time to break down the routine into smaller, manageable sections. Take

it step by step, focusing on each individual movement and transition. Practice

each section repeatedly until you feel comfortable with it before moving on to the

next one. Remember to take it slow and be patient with yourselves. With time

and practice, you'll start to see the dance come together.

Step 6: Practice, Practice, Practice

To ensure a flawless performance, practice is key. Schedule regular practice

sessions with your partner, even if it's just for a few minutes each day. The more

you practice, the more comfortable you'll become with the routine. Don't be

afraid to ask for feedback from your instructor or trusted friends and family

members. Their input can help you fine-tune your dance and make it even more


Step 7: Add Personal Touches

Infuse your personalities into the routine by adding personal touches. Consider

incorporating inside jokes, shared hobbies, or even a surprise move that will leave

your guests in awe. These personal touches will make the dance uniquely yours

and create a heartfelt connection between you and your partner.

Step 8: Dress Rehearsal

Just like any other performance, a dress rehearsal is essential. Wear your wedding

attire, including your shoes, and run through the routine in its entirety. This dress

rehearsal will allow you to identify any potential issues or adjustments needed

and ensure that everything flows smoothly on the big day. Remember to discuss details of your First Dance song with your Wedding DJ or Band, in advance of the wedding.

Step 9: Enjoy the Moment

On your wedding day, take a deep breath, relax, and enjoy the moment. All the

hard work and preparation have led up to this beautiful moment. Trust in the

practice you've put in and the bond you share with your partner. Let go of any

nerves and let the joy and love between you guide your steps. Remember, the

most important aspect of your wedding dance is the connection and love you

share with your partner. So, savour every second and let the dance be a true

reflection of your journey together.

Step 10: Capturing the Memories

After your dance, consider hiring a professional photographer or videographer to

capture this special moment. These precious memories will be cherished for a

lifetime and can be shared with family and friends who couldn't attend the

wedding. Having high-quality photos or a video of your wedding dance allows you

to relive the magic and share the joyous moment with loved ones for years to


In conclusion, choreographing your wedding dance is an opportunity to create a

heartfelt and memorable experience on your special day. With careful planning,

practice, and the right guidance, you can craft a dance routine that reflects your

love story and showcases your unique bond. From choosing the perfect song to

adding personal touches, each step of the process adds to the beauty of the final

performance. So, embrace the journey, trust in your abilities, and dance your way

into a lifetime of happiness together.

Photo by Mukesh Mohanty at Pexels

First Dance Academy offers private wedding dance lessons at their studios. Their highly skilled instructors are dedicated to helping individuals feel confident and at ease on the dance floor. They work with clients to select the perfect song and dance style, or assist in refining the dance to their preferred song. The academy's services cater to all skill levels, whether one is a seasoned dancer or has two left feet, and they can help individuals achieve their desired level of mastery. For more details, visit


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